Oh no! This is one of the worst nightmare, someone is giving you his/her resignation.
Here's an experience I had with an employee a couple of years ago. At that time, I was directing a team of 30 professionals including project managers, functional leads, implementation consultant, trainers, technician and a PCO. The PCO was the latest addition to our team and was hired couple of months prior to this event.
Listen to this; I came in a Wednesday morning at work (around 8h20am), took off my jacket and hanged it - started my laptop, started to dial the voicemail number to get my messages and noticed that a folded paper has been placed under my empty glass of water!!!! What is this? I immediately took the paper and opened it. The paper was a printed letter and I immediately read the signature name and realized that because it came from that individual that this could be a resignation letter! Oh dear! Oh no!
Wow, I thought, this is the first time ever after 15 years of experience that this would or could happen to me- - - - hopefully, I thought, this is not what I am thinking about! I felt like I spent so much time training this individual and sharing with him my vision. I knew that he was facing personal challenges in his life and tried to provide him my support (as an employer) - But unfortunately, I realized that his personal challenges were affecting the quality of his interactions with the personal - 3 weeks prior to this event, he even got into verbal fights with a project manager, that fight went way out proportion (I addressed the behavior with both of them and have been very clear on my expectations - No one is allowed to adopt this type of negative and destructive attitude in my team - this is just not the way we communicate with each other, If they want to work with such an a negative attitude, I cannot accept them in my team - I am very strict on that).
So, to come back to that morning, before I got to read the letter that I was holding in my hand, the project manager that got in a fight 3 weeks prior to this event came in my office like a tornado. I could see that her face was all red and that she was very nervous and almost shaking. She sat down before I had the time to ask her and she placed her hands on her face to take a deep breath. OK - now I was sure that the two events were linked together - - - So I closed my door as I was still looking at her and waiting for her to calm down before I even said a word. My phone rang and I just decided to not answer and called my assistant so that she can take the calls for a bit. When I spoke to my assistant on the phone, she said, I need to talk to you it's about Carl and Anita. OK, we'll talk after Louisa, I am with Anita right now and have a note from Carl in my hand, I will come to see you right after.
''Anita, what happened?'' I said... She started to explain the fight they had yesterday before leaving the office and explained the fight they had again when they both came in first thing in the morning. The reason of the fight is irrelevant for the purpose of this blog but let me tell you that it could have been avoided for sure!
So I told her that I would speak with Carl and loop back with her before the end of the morning.
I read the letter right after she left and IT
WAS A RESIGNATION LETTER EFFECTIVE IMMEDIATELY!!!! Wow, this is bad!!! Lots of DON'Ts in this this process to build a long lasting reputation for him that I will summarize later. So, I took the phone and called right away Carl to schedule a one on one meeting with him, I had to get to the bottom of this! One thing was however clear in my mind; I accepted his immediate resignation as the damage was already done. I could have forced him to stay for 2 weeks to close his projects and perform a proper knowledge transfer but I preferred to do it differently and wanted him to truly learn from this experience. I spoke with HR and wanted to validate my thoughts - HR agreed with my proceedings;
When I met with him the next day, believe it or not but he had regrets and wanted his job back. Let me tell you that I thought about this option but I could not see how it would work as he obviously broke the rule. He had all the technical skills to perform his job but he did not fit the people profile I needed in my team to create
THE BEST TEAM TO WORK IN, IN THIS COMPANY!!!
Here is the messages I communicated with him during our one on one meeting - it was a very honest and transparent meeting, I really wanted to help this individual and the only way I could help him was to provide some recommendations him to move forward;
- I confirmed to him that I truly appreciated his technical skills
- I was very honest on the fact that I thought that he did not have the right profile for this job from a people skills perspective
- I suggested that he never give a resignation without a 2 weeks notice, in this situation
- I suggested that he always meet with his superior to discuss options
- I suggested to always give a resignation one-by-one, never leave a resignation letter on a desk, at least talk on the phone before giving a resignation letter if you cannot meet with your superior.
- I told him that given the circonstances that I did accept his resignation.
FOR EMPLOYEES
- Make sure that you sit down with your boss before you make your decision, there might be some options that you are not even aware of
- Give your resignation letter face to face / or call your boss and send it after to tell him it is coming up
- Always leave at least 2 weeks, your boss might ask you for more than 2 weeks if needed (think of both parties, think of leaving with an intact reputation)
- Be professional until the end, make sure that you do a good transition plan! That you execute it to the teeth!!! It's not time to get demotivated! It's time to leave your last tracks!
- Always be positive about your company (don't let your colleagues down by telling them some aspects that you do not like about the company! They are staying and YOU are leaving)
- Keep your smile until the end! Call your customers, your colleagues personally after you agree with your boss that you can communicate your departure. Explain why you leave from a new challenge perspective!
- Be a good support to your team and boss! You leaving creates them head hicks!!!
FOR EMPLOYERS
- Challenge your employee if you judge that the individual has lots of potential, never accept a resignation if you feel that this is a loss to the team and the company. The employee might not know that options are possible!!!
- If you accept the resignation of your employee, ask to have a one-on-one meeting with the employee with the following objectives / it is not only up to HR to perform the closer interview, it is your responsibility to understand!
- Understand your employees perspective; what worked for him, what did not work, what he wishes that you would have done different as a boss,
- Express to your employee your gratitude towards his contribution! Tell him what you consider to be his best deliverable and skills. Tell him honestly what components you feel that your employee should work on to achieve his career objectives (as a manager you should have a clear understanding of your employee's goals)
- Plan a transition with your employee / ensure that your employee is motivated to perform his last 2 weeks and that you appreciate his contribution until the end!
- Communicate the departure of the employee and the transition plan as fast as possible to the team. This needs to be done at the latest 24 hours after you receive the resignation... You want to control the communication and ensure that your team does not hear the news from others.
- Come-on!!! You need to celebrate the departure of the leaving employee (when the departure is done professionally by the employee)!!! Departures are as important as Welcoming!!! Departure celebration are allowing your employee to truly feel appreciated! The celebration should be in proportion to the employee contribution and years working for the company (not only for the time reporting to you!!!)
To you think of any other advises to provide? What is your point of view, please comment